If you're throwing giant boulders in the water over and over and over again, it's too much for the energetic. Part of the shadow side is that they can short-circuit very easily and shut down because it's just too much stimulation. Jaiya explains that sometimes, 'There's so much sensation that they short-circuit. People with an energetic erotic blueprint are very sensitive and can quickly become overwhelmed and overstimulated, causing them to shut down and disassociate from their partner. Spoiler alert: these are often different between partners in a couple. Somatic Sexologist, Jaiya, believes people have different maps to eroticism, which she calls Erotic Blueprints. Enter the Erotic Blueprints, a revolutionary framework that unlocks the door to erotic satisfaction by recognizing and honoring the unique ways each individual experiences turn-on and pleasure.

However, they can become easily distracted and lose arousal quickly should their safety connection feel broken. It identifies physical and emotional characteristics that are pleasing, particular kinks or fetishes, behaviors you exhibit and entertain as sexual, and processes that move the sexual response cycle forward. Anything that makes them feel safe is a big turn-on: eye contact, soft whispering in the ear, affirmations of love, and even matching breathing and in-sync body movements. Because they love teasing, they become easily aroused and may have multiple orgasms. What are the five Erotic Blueprint types Simply put, they are: sensual, energetic, sexual, kinky, and shapeshifter. An Erotic Blueprint is a map, a guide, a framework, a language that helps you talk about your sexuality with greater ease and acceptance.

Energetics are intuitive lovers they pick up on the energy around them and connect with their partners on a deeper level.

Basic erotic blueprint